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Old 26-11-2018, 10:18 AM
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Although it's really understandable to be highly vigilant to potential dangers and threats, being so simply keeps your anxiety levels high. They must have taught you that in the CBT you've had? Act as if you believe all is well - even while you don't believe it.
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All moved in!!!!!!! The place is lovely and we had loads help us so we are mostly settled. The boys are so happy and relaxed. We are still local to the schools and our work! My work have been brilliant and even made me permanent this week. @cpfccomedy on twitter (Steve) has been brilliant and him and his wife lent us the deposit whilst we are waiting for the money to come through. The boys palace kits have been ordered along with some Palace PJs. I can't describe how I'm feeling after all of the last few months. I am forever grateful


Lovely thing to read on a Monday morning. So pleased for you.
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All moved in!!!!!!! The place is lovely and we had loads help us so we are mostly settled. The boys are so happy and relaxed. We are still local to the schools and our work! My work have been brilliant and even made me permanent this week. @cpfccomedy on twitter (Steve) has been brilliant and him and his wife lent us the deposit whilst we are waiting for the money to come through. The boys palace kits have been ordered along with some Palace PJs. I can't describe how I'm feeling after all of the last few months. I am forever grateful
Great news!

What time do you want us all to arrive for lunch on Xmas day?
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Old 26-11-2018, 11:40 AM
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Glad to hear that the move went well Sean and all the best for the future.
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Old 28-11-2018, 11:10 AM
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Brilliant mate, changed everything. Boys are sleeping through the night so much happier. It's odd to feel normal again. I'm still adjusting to living a normal life again!

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Old 28-11-2018, 11:12 AM
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Although it's really understandable to be highly vigilant to potential dangers and threats, being so simply keeps your anxiety levels high. They must have taught you that in the CBT you've had? Act as if you believe all is well - even while you don't believe it.
Yep, you are right. I seem to be starting to look at things normally again and it is always good to be vigilant.
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Old 28-11-2018, 11:13 AM
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Great news!

What time do you want us all to arrive for lunch on Xmas day?
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Old 28-11-2018, 11:21 AM
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Poxy bloody housing association giving us grief again... We just want to move out but can't until a few bits are in place, now these arseholes are on our backs again and it's just stress and grief I could really do without right now.
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Old 14-12-2018, 07:03 PM
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So I had a rather Frank conversation with our housing officer yesterday when I basically didn't like his tone and felt he was being confrontational and aggressive towards both my wife and I.

Since I emailed him requesting his superiors name and contact details and those of the company management he hasn't responded at all. That was at 11:23 yesterday morning. I did say that I was going to make a formal complaint about him but I'm a little shocked given how argumentative he was how quickly he went quiet.

Should I be worried or see it as a small victory?
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Old 15-12-2018, 12:11 AM
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Difficult to say. however never make a threat you do not follow through on as otherwise he will see you as all bluster and no substance. however if you get an apology or a changed response then you may want to accept that and move on. No response sounds more like he is keeping his head down and hoping you give up on a complaint.

If you do complain make sure you make it rational and measured in tone and not personal. Hope you get things sorted.
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Difficult to say. however never make a threat you do not follow through on as otherwise he will see you as all bluster and no substance. however if you get an apology or a changed response then you may want to accept that and move on. No response sounds more like he is keeping his head down and hoping you give up on a complaint.

If you do complain make sure you make it rational and measured in tone and not personal. Hope you get things sorted.
I would also add its usually best to use another source of information about who you complain too rather than ask the person you wish to complain about as its not unheard of for the person to select an appropriate person that they know will back them up!
I have only had face to face dealings with our housing officer once.I suppose he was polite enough but the fact he handed me an eviction notice pissed me off (just a bit!), i had recently moved in with my wife who previously had her rent paid by housing benefit as she was carer to her disabled daughter and i had set up a direct debit with them to pay rent on the date suggested by them,this clown turned up on the friday when the first payment was going out on the monday! I guessed he probably lived in the direction past our house so was happy to finish early sneaking off to hand deliver this notice and also that his lax attitude was largely influenced by the fact my wife was a benefits claimant? and that before getting this far it may have been reasonable to expect him to check if another payment arrangement was in place.I told him at the time pretty bluntly my thoughts and then put in a written complaint.They offered me Ł50 argos vouchers and were going to make him come round to apologise in person but my wife said she didn't want him in our house so he was let off with a written apology for the distress he caused which i accepted was an end of the matter.Hopefully he learnt something and the retraining he recieved helped him in the future!
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It's weird as he was on our case big time. Since I asked for details to make a complaint he has gone very quiet, so wondering if he has been pulled for his behaviour / attitude before. Been almost 3 weeks now since he last responded, literally never replied back. Weird.
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The one bit i can't remember is how i found out who to complain to! Think i probably just rang up and asked (without giving details of who i was or which housing officer) who i should complain to about a housing officer.
I agree with with sw16 girl that you should follow it up now you have threatened too and if it were me would now use the sudden lack of communication (i e providing the information you requested) for several weeks as a 2nd complaint,also perhaps waiting 3 weeks helps make you look reasonably patient and you explain you allowed for possible holiday etc before finally accepting that they had no intention of resonding to you at all.
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The one bit i can't remember is how i found out who to complain to! Think i probably just rang up and asked (without giving details of who i was or which housing officer) who i should complain to about a housing officer.
I agree with with sw16 girl that you should follow it up now you have threatened too and if it were me would now use the sudden lack of communication (i e providing the information you requested) for several weeks as a 2nd complaint,also perhaps waiting 3 weeks helps make you look reasonably patient and you explain you allowed for possible holiday etc before finally accepting that they had no intention of resonding to you at all.
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Well.if he doesn't tell me I shall be finding out somehow. At the moment as he has gone quiet I have taken the view that as long as he is quiet not to antagonise him so I haven't bothered to ask again, just been enjoying the peace and quiet over the Christmas period to be honest. Guy is a twat and a massive liar too.
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